Ok, so recently I have joined two dating sites (yeah, I know: say whaatt??) and decided to give meeting someone online another try (didn't work out the first time). And let me tell you it's hard, it's not as easy it as it looks.
First, I don't know what to write about myself; like really, what can you write that will attract people to you? In my case, apparently whatever I write I attract an older crowd; really, come on!! No matter what I write on there, I either get NO RESPONSE (has been two days, even though I have patience with everything else, I have none here) or I get guys that are older than me (wwwaaaayyyy older, can I get a say WWHHAATT??). Is it something that I am writing or not writing about myself? What does it take to get noticed on line?
Second, I have a distinct feeling that men lie on line. They're profile pictures do not, I repeat DO NOT reflect their profile information. Come on, why like about your age? Or your favorite book to read (long story). I was honest in my profile, why is it so hard to be honest back?
Third, like I said before, I do not have the patience for this. My friend's on the other hand are enjoying themselves; mostly because they want to see me happy with someone, and have me cared for and loved. Ugh, but I don't have the time to find someone. I wish he would just fall out the sky, haha; an alien, yeah that's gonna happen. Why can't it be someone I already have a relationship with? No scratch that, my guys friends are either a-holes or really good friends, who's friendships I do not want to lose; I've already lost one because of that, now I see his face everywhere..even on online dating sites. I am a mess.
This is what will keep me going, the belief that I will find someone..somewhere..eventually, right?
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